Not too long ago, there was a series of commercials, by a mobile phone
provider oddly enough, about mobile phone "really?" moments. The premise
of the commercial was that this new phone could get you in, out, and
back to real life faster than the other phones on the market. The
commercial made a great point however. We humans seem to have a hard
time getting each other's attention these days. Even in loving
relationships, getting your girl's attention can be, difficult. However,
these four tips will get you her undivided attention if you go about
them the right way.
1) Get Her Away from the Crowd
If
there is constantly a group of people or an audience around, it's
difficult to get through the clutter of other opinions, other advice,
and other recommendations. Now is a great time to plan a weekend out of
town for the two of you so that you can reconnect with one another
without an audience hanging on your every word.
2) Plan an Electronic Free Weekend
This
includes all electronic devices (mobile phones, tablets, laptops,
televisions, video game systems, iPods, the whole shebang) if you want
it to be effective. The idea is that you'll be forced to rely on each
other for communication, companionship, and attention. Play games
together, talk to each other, and reconnect in a way you haven't managed
in quite a while. You'll be surprised by what a difference going two
days without all the distractions can do for your relationship.
3) Send her Flowers - For No Reason
You
better believe this will get her attention. She's definitely going to
want to know what's going on, what's happened, and what you're
attempting to apologize for. It will drive her mad with curiosity and
have her hanging on your every word until she feels she's gotten to the
bottom of things.
4) Clean the House
After she picks her
jaw up off the floor or wakes up from passing out, she'll be dying to
know what's going on, who's coming over, and whether or not you've
become a Stepford husband. If house cleaning is something you just can't
handle or she does such a great job that it never needs extra help,
consider completing some other project she's been asking/nagging you to
do for a while now. Just finishing it will be a gift to both of you at
this point and will certainly get her attention.
You don't have
to move heaven and earth to make a favorable impression with the girl
you love. Little steps can make a big difference in your relationship
and ensure that you have her undivided attention now and help you keep
it in the future.
