Feeling dismissed and ignored stings deeper than almost any other feeling. One would almost rather feel the highest highs of love followed by the depths of despair of a break up than exist in the limbo of the unknown.
What should a person do when they believe they are being ignored? Taking stock of the relationship, determining the source of the breakdown and fixing the problem will need to occur before anything will resolve for the positive or negative.
Where Things Stand
Though seemingly obvious,...
Myths About Men and Their Feelings
A great deal has been espoused about men and their feelings. One of the interesting things centers around what people, both men and women, expect counter to the underlying truth surrounding the emotional lives of men. The topic often triggers many debates. Everyone must put their preconceived notions to the side and begin afresh with the discussion about men, their feelings and how to they can express them.
Myth 1: Men Don't Have Feelings
Some classical male archetypes come across as silent, emotionless...
Spotting the Good Guys
The lament of several women centers around finding good guys and how impossible the task appears. While not the easiest process in the world, a few simple tweaks to one's outlook may bring results where mining online dating sites and locals clubs have failed. Knowing where to look, what you are looking for and your own roadblocks must come into focus before the good guys will begin surfacing.
Where to Look?
This is one of the easiest things to fix. Men are not hiding in a secret location. They...
The Trap of a Torrent of Texts
Technology can bring people closer together by increasing ease of communication, eliminating costs and reducing distance between couples. As a beneficial tool, smart phones combined with inexpensive plans allow couples to be in regular contact.
It can grow tempting to reach out for a partner at anytime without consideration of how the contact might be received. One needs to be aware of the reasons they text, the limitations of communication via text and when a line has been crossed to prevent...
Family Holding Back on the Ex
When taking an ex back, several things need to be considered. The process can take a long time to get everything in order from one's feelings, resolution of the incident which caused the break up and a plan to reintegrate them back into your life. Following this involved course, one might be surprised by they way their family reacts. Everyone wants to believe their family will acquiesce to the wishes of the couple. Rarely does anything ever go the way one wants or believes it will, so it is best...
Moving Forward by Going Through
Everyone faces challenges when it comes to the dissolution of relationships. Feelings run high. Sensations of loss and instability plague even the most assured individuals. It takes more than a strong will, a blind eye or even a new relationship to help someone get to the healthy place they seek. In order to find what they need, one must push through the pain toward wholeness.
Why It Should Happen?
Think about when an injury to the body is sustained. What does it take to return to full health...
What a Girl Wants - And Why You're the Man to Give it to Her
Relationships with women can be a bit of a mystery to the modern man. It
seems that girls today say one thing and want something else. In some
ways that's true. Women are constantly at war with a long history of
genetic encoding where relationships are concerned and thoroughly modern
ideas of what relationships should be. Somewhere in the mix, is a very
mixed up girl. However, there are a few things that are almost
universally wanted by women in relationships today. Do these things and
she's...
Three Reasons It's Highly Effective To Get Your Ex Back by Going "No Contact"
Depending on how long you've been trying to get your ex back, or how
many times you've tried and failed already, you've probably heard people
talking about giving up the concerted efforts you've been making and
going "no contact" with your ex. At first glance that seems like
a crazy plan! Right? The idea that you would be able to get your ex
back by not trying to get her back sounds absolutely absurd. And yet, it
works. In fact, it often works where everything else you've tried in
the past...
Six Secrets for a Long Healthy Relationship
We
live in a time when people change relationships more often than they
change hairstyles. Some people would call them disposable. Easy come.
Easy go. But, what happens, when you think you've found the one. You
know, the one they wrote epic poems about long ago. The one that makes
every other relationship pale by comparison -- at least as far as your
relationship experiences are concerned. How do you hold on to this
special relationship while so many other couples are unable to make it
work?...
Relationship Help - Money Management Communication is Key to Happy Home
Money
isn't the root of all evil, but evidence suggests it is the leading
cause of separations and divorces throughout the world. Even if both
partners agree to the overall idea that they need to manage their money
better, problems arise, when they disagree over how to manage the money
or have miscommunications regarding who is or isn't going to do what
with the money.Here are a few universal truths to keep your
money management plan for a happy marriage from falling apart as rapidly
as...
Reasons You Deserve Better and Why You Should Ask for it Before You Get Your Ex Back
No matter how down and out you feel about the ending of your
relationship, it's important to understand that it's not completely your
fault things didn't work out. No matter what your ex tries to convince
you, it takes two people to make or break a relationship. It will take
two people working together to put it back together again. You need to
understand this and ask for things to change before you get your ex
back. These are the reasons why you deserve better in the future.You Bring Value...
How to Make Her Feel Like the Queen of Your World
Have you ever noticed that even in marriages where the couples seem to
have it all -- looks, money, the perfect story -- things sometimes fall
apart? It leaves a lot of mere mortals without the fairy tale budgets
and picture perfect smile stand a chance. The truth is, that the regular
people of the world stand as much of a chance as those with big budgets
to buy their girls a little bit of everything. Why?Because
when it comes down to it, most girls aren't proverbial material girls
no matter...
Four Great ways to Get Your Girl's Attention
Not too long ago, there was a series of commercials, by a mobile phone
provider oddly enough, about mobile phone "really?" moments. The premise
of the commercial was that this new phone could get you in, out, and
back to real life faster than the other phones on the market. The
commercial made a great point however. We humans seem to have a hard
time getting each other's attention these days. Even in loving
relationships, getting your girl's attention can be, difficult. However,
these four...
Simple Truths Every Girl Needs to Know about Her Guy
Girls often have a hard time relating to the guys they love. There is a
lot of truth to the 1990's Mars and Venus book series by Dr. John Gray.
Men and women seem to speak and understand different languages from one
another. Girls don't understand what their guys are really
saying and get their feelings hurt quite often when no negativity was
implied from the guy at all. Then he's baffled that she's suddenly
giving him the silent treatment and holding back tears. Then the you know what hits...
How to Make Up Fast Before You Break Up
Breaking up is hard on everyone involved. If you're interested in
hanging on to your relationship, then the best solution is to prevent
the breakup in the first place. Preventative action can save you both
the heartache of a breakup and the lengthy recovery and reconciliation
process. More importantly, it can help prevent many damaging words and
actions before they ever happen. But, how do you stop something that
seems almost inevitable? Communicate More EffectivelyGuys
and girls have this...
How to Deal with Seeing Your Ex Unexpectedly
You got the wind knocked out of your sails with the breakup. You had a
few rough days, weeks, maybe even months. But, you finally started
getting back out there in the real world.
You're hitting the
town with your friends. You're working out at the gym. And you're trying
like mad to at least look like you're getting on with your life - no
matter how much you want her back.
You're doing good. You're looking good. Girls are starting to smile and flirt with you. You're Superman.
Then BAM!...
Making up in the Movies - Why Doesn't it Really Work That Way?
You've seen it happen in the movies dozens, if not hundreds of time. Boy
meets girl. Girl falls in love with boy. Boy breaks girl's heart (mean
boy!). Girl breaks up with boy. Boy makes heroic effort with giant
1980's boom boxes, saying "hello," flying a jet, and countless other
antics to win her heart back. The problem is, one person is writing the
script for both of them in the movies. They're playing pre-defined roles
and following cues. Real life doesn't quite work that way. Lack of OriginalityUnfortunately,
...
Marriage Mistakes Women Make and How to Avoid Them
Marriage
is a complex entity that rarely turns out quite the way you envisioned while
making plans and picking out China patterns and wedding dresses. It was so much
simpler when it was all on paper and everything matched up perfectly. Real life
is never quite so neat and tidy.
Unfortunately,
many couples put far more thought into planning the details of their marriage
without putting a single thought into what's going to happen once the vows are
made. If you're getting ready to take...
The Lazy Man's Guide to Getting Your Girlfriend Back
Breaking up is especially difficult when it wasn't your plan. Men handle unexpected breakups in different ways. Some men go all in to get their girlfriends back. They jump through crazy hoops, make deals, bargain, beg, and come close to stalking in an effort to get her back.
Other men decide that maybe this is just how things were meant to be and seek greener pastures elsewhere - at least, that's what they do in time. It often takes at least a little while to mend their broken hearts and feel willing...
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